Do not try to fit in if you wish to stand out. And then, work for it.
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
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Do not try to fit in if you wish to stand out. And then, work for it.
Thursday, July 31, 2014
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Invent. When you invent, all the management and marketing considerations are totally irrelevant. You are about to create a future with your invention.
Thursday, July 24, 2014
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Make a habit of learning (what is necessary), unlearning (what is incorrect, ineffective, outdated/obsolete) and relearning (what is correct, effective and current). This is a sure way to live a fulfilling life.
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
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Simplicity is the ultimate degree of sophistication. Adopt simplicity. (Don't confuse simplicity with submissiveness).
Monday, July 21, 2014
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Start hating the wars right now. Stop this nonsense fully and immediately. Make this earth a livable place.
Thursday, July 17, 2014
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What can I do toward creating a "zero discrimination- zero hatred- zero war" society?
Friday, July 11, 2014
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Boundarylessness expands the horizon of thinking and therefore, its implementation in its real sense.
Thursday, July 10, 2014
Monday, July 7, 2014
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Focus on the most important, leave the rest. This is the key to your happiness and success.
Sunday, September 1, 2013
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Stop comparing, that's when your personality starts flourishing.
Monday, August 26, 2013
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Stop comparing yourself with others. No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.
Saturday, July 27, 2013
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Convert problem into opportunity. Problem becomes sexy if you know how to flirt with situation.
Friday, July 26, 2013
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Support a person by your touch, kind word, listening, complimenting and caring. It not only has a phenomenally positive impact on others but also on you.
Monday, July 8, 2013
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Involve people when you want to make them learn. Telling and teaching are often ineffective- people often listen and forget when you just tell them or at best they remember when and what you teach. Real learning comes from genuine and effective involvement.
Games, exercises, energizers and icebreakers are great ways to engage and involve people in any learning situation. Refer these books for a large number of games and icebreakers (available online from Amazon as printed books and eBooks): "Classic Management Games, Exercises, Energizers and Icebreakers", "Classic Management Games, Exercises, Energizers and Icebreakers (Volume 2)", "Classic Team Building Games, Exercises, Energizers and Icebreakers", "101 Classic Management Games, Exercises, Energizers and Icebreakers"
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
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Don't keep judging people all the time. It will obstruct you from loving them.
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
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Enjoy 7 to 8 hours of sleep every night between regular hours (say from 10 or 10.30 PM to 6 or 6.30 AM)
To know about other health essentials refer:
(Walking) http://walking-plan.blogspot.com/
(Quit Smoking) http://quit-smoking-plan.blogspot.com/
Read this book: "Health Essentials (Health Is Wealth)" http://www.amazon.com/Health-Essentials-Wealth-Subject/dp/1491200626/ref=sr_1_23?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1450942779&sr=1-23&keywords=shyam+bhatawdekar%27s+books
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
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Drink 10 to 12 glasses (2 to 3 liters) of water everyday. Adequate water intake is the most economical and simplest way of staying healthy.
Thursday, June 6, 2013
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Entertaining others thoughts will not belittle you. And who says you have to accept all of them or some of them? So, do give consideration to others' thoughts.
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
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Listen. Listen to what others say. Then separate the wheat from the chaff and become wiser. Reminding about listening is not a cliche, listening is very beneficial.
For more on listening refer: http://listen-skills.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
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You don't have to look out for a reason or an excuse to be happy. Just be happy- without rhyme or reason.
Sunday, May 19, 2013
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Worst bankrupt is one who lost his enthusiasm. Enthuse yourself today.
You may also like to read "Self Motivation" at http://internal-motivation.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
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Self-affirmation helps a great deal. Say to yourself many times a day- "I can do".
You can do well by reading the book "Stress? No Way!!" http://nbuu.co/4
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
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To put yourself in others' shoes (i.e. to empathize), the first thing you need to do is to remove your shoes.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
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Manage your anger. When you get angry, you lose much more than just your temper. Anger not only ruins your day but shrinks your life span.
Also refer: http://controlling-anger.blogspot.in/
You may like to download the eBook "Essentials of Anger Management" from http://nbuu.co/cy
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Sunday, December 9, 2012
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Keep moving towards your goals. Everything else you do is non-value adding and wasteful.
You may like to download the eBook "Essentials of Goal Setting" from http://nbuu.co/cv
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
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You may not get a second chance to make your good first impression. External personality is as important as your internal personality. Look impressive.
Also refer: Personality http://human-personality.blogspot.in/
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Thursday, November 15, 2012
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If recklessness is bad, so is overcautiousness. Best way is to use prudence. Taking calculated risk is not harmful.
Monday, November 12, 2012
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Don't be blindly led by so called leaders- this type of leadership concept is obsolete. You must learn to lead yourself.
Monday, October 8, 2012
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Give it a try, accomplishment will follow.
Sunday, October 7, 2012
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Don't waste your time pleasing everyone. You can't do it, its not worth it, no need to do it. There are better things to do.
You may like to download the eBook "Essentials of Assertive Behavior" from http://nbuu.co/cx
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
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The entire burden of this world does not rest on your shoulders. Therefore do not take yourself too seriously- no one else does!
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
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Do not depend on anyone for freedom, equality, justice or anything else. If you're a man (or you are a woman), just take it.
For more, refer: "I am liberated": at http://i-am-liberated.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
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Focus on possibilities. It leads you to opportunities in life. But when you focus on problems, you will have more problems.
You may like to read "Problem Solving" at http://problem-solving-skill.blogspot.in/
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
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Love your spouse by understanding that imperfect person perfectly.
Also look up: http://shyam.bhatawdekar.net/index.php/2011/12/29/life-management-family-management-building-intimacy-in-marriage-lesson-6/ or http://marriage-counsel.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
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Call spade a spade but do it decently. Curb curt behavior. Yet, its true you cannot please everyone. So, why do it?
Monday, December 19, 2011
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Never ever underestimate and doubt the intelligence and wisdom of your spouse. It's she/he who chose you in marriage.
Side reading suggested:
Marriage Counseling: http://marriage-counsel.blogspot.com/
Qualities in a Spouse: http://spouse-qualities.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
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Decide your definition of success and start acting accordingly. Every one's definition of success can be unique, so don't follow the rut. Do not do it for other peoples' approval.
Refer: Success in Life at http://success-achievement.blogspot.com/
Monday, December 12, 2011
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Celebrate your positive thinking day today. Think positively about everybody and everything. Today look at only their brighter aspects and do not emphasize their darker aspects.
Friday, December 2, 2011
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Celebrate your movie day today. Select a good movie, announce it in advance, invite all of your family members and like minded friends and their families. Get around the TV and together watch the movie just like the way you do in a theater. Ensure copious supply of popcorn and soda.
The websites where you can find the lists of the most entertaining and high quality movies are:
Hollywood movies: http://popular-movies.blogspot.com/
Oscar award movies: http://oscar-award-movies.blogspot.com/
Hindi movies (Bollywood movies:) http://unforgettable-hindi-movies.blogspot.com/
Bollywood movies inspired from Hollywood movies: http://copied-hindi-movies.blogspot.com/
Saturday, November 5, 2011
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Use correct tone of voice while expressing your opinion. Conflicts due to difference of opinions are far less (may be around 10%) than due to wrong tone of voice (may be around 90%)
You may also like to read:
Body Language http://body-language-communication.blogspot.com/
Transaction Analysis http://transaction-analysis.blogspot.com/
Friday, October 7, 2011
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Don't live someone else's life. Live life your own way. Yet, do explore what you truly want to be- that's most important.
Friday, September 23, 2011
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Many people will dissuade you from embarking on a new venture. Listen to them. Yet, if you believe in your own guts and you have given it some serious thought, start your new venture today.
Remember the Chinese proverb: "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now." So, go plant your "tree" now.
And here is a lesson to those who have habit of discouraging others: "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it."
Also refer: Entrepreneurship at http://entrepreneurship-entrepreneur.blogspot.com/
Remember the Chinese proverb: "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now." So, go plant your "tree" now.
And here is a lesson to those who have habit of discouraging others: "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it."
Also refer: Entrepreneurship at http://entrepreneurship-entrepreneur.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
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Do not treat every situation as a life and death matter.
If you do, you'll die thousand times.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
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You may be knowing that the three most difficult things to say are:
- I love you,
- Sorry and
- Help me
Monday, July 18, 2011
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People get attracted to a currency note because it has value.
Hold on to your value like a currency note.
Hold on to your value like a currency note.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
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If I wear makeup, I'm fake. If I dress up, I'm a show off. If I say what I think, I'm rude. If I say nothing, I have 'attitude problem'. If I cry sometimes, I'm a drama queen. If I have guy/girl friends, I'm fast. If I stand up for myself, I'm mouthy. Its like you can't do anything nowadays without being labeled. So what? Give a Damn!!!
I'm proud of what I'm.
Its worthwhile spending time to read related literature at: http://shyam.bhatawdekar.net/index.php/2011/04/20/stress-management-lack-of-self-esteem-or-lack-of-self-worth/
I'm proud of what I'm.
Its worthwhile spending time to read related literature at: http://shyam.bhatawdekar.net/index.php/2011/04/20/stress-management-lack-of-self-esteem-or-lack-of-self-worth/
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011
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See a quality movie. Do not waste your time watching trash or mediocre movies.
Refer for the lists of good movies:
English movies http://popular-movies.blogspot.com/
Oscar award movies http://oscar-award-movies.blogspot.com/
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Friday, April 8, 2011
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Shun approval addiction. Why you need your actions to be endorsed by others all the time? Can't you feel good about yourself without some one else saying that you are good?
Suggested supplementary reading on the topic at http://shyam.bhatawdekar.net/index.php/2012/10/17/life-management-approval-addiction/
Also refer: (Self-confidence) http://self-confidence-improvement.blogspot.com/, (Success in Life) http://success-achievement.blogspot.com/ and http://humansoftware.blogspot.com/
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Do not indulge in self-pity. Count your own blessings and cheer up. Thousands of people around you may be less fortunate than you. In any case, who stops you from improving your lot?
Refer: (Internal Motivation or Self Motivation) http://internal-motivation.blogspot.com/ and (Self Development) http://managing-self.blogspot.com/
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Monday, March 28, 2011
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Write mission statement for your family.
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