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Relive the happy moments. Remember the happy events of your life in your own mind and re-experience the same happy emotions once again. Its one of the good, simple and enjoyable ways of self rejuvenation. Try it.

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Stop being a time-nut. Give your watch a holiday for a day once in a while. Forget about time lines, time tables, schedules, dead lines which control all your actions on rest of days in any case. So you deserve to be without a watch at least on a few days of your life. Makes sense?

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Thank the people who helped you. Do it genuinely. Do it profusely.

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Sharpen your competencies. Sharpen your those talents, competencies and skills that you need for effective life management- for leading your personal, home, professional and social life effectively. Forget the rest.
We suggest some really good articles on this very important topic:
(Competencies- Life Management) http://shyam-bhatawdekar.blogspot.com/
(Competency Matrix) http://competency-matrix.blogspot.com/
(Soft Skills) http://soft-skills-competencies.blogspot.com/
(Soft Skills/Competencies: Details of Each Competency) http://soft-competencies-skills.blogspot.com/

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Give joyous kick start to your day. Why begin the day with dumb things like arguing, having a row with anyone, negative thoughts, complaining and the likes of them? You can as well start your day seeing, listening, tasting, feeling, thinking and doing something that will fill you with joy early morning.

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Laugh it out. Who says it is necessary to take everything seriously in life?

Make Your Own Opinion on Any Issue

Make your own opinion on any issue. Do not be blindly swayed by others' opinions on the subject; even by the opinions of so called influential people.
Develop your own HSoftware (Human Software- the concept and the term created by Shyam Bhatawdekar: refer his article on HSoftware at http://humansoftware.blogspot.com/

Improve Your Public Speaking Competency

Improve your public speaking competency. It will help you in every walk of life- it is needed almost everywhere.
To hone your public speaking skills, be guided by the tips given at: http://public-speak-skill.blogspot.com/

Start Liking Your Work

Start liking your job. If you don't, no one suffers but you and indirectly your family since it adversely affects your performance on job, your future prospects and your earning capacity. So, start taking interest in whatsoever job you have today- that's the stark reality. Yet keep trying to get to do the work that you really like- you will have to put in your efforts for that; it is not automatic.

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Dance. Grab every possible opportunity to dance. And do not feel shy even if you are not expert in dancing.

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Pursue your most favorite hobby or interest. It will bring peace and happiness to you. All you know, this hobby or interest may even make you famous one day. And further, all you know this hobby or interest may bring you tons of money too. So, do it.

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Do not get angry. There is hardly any benefit in getting angry; particularly the kind of anger on which you do not have your conscious control. So, why? It can only harm you emotionally, mentally and physically pretty badly. Watch.
If you wish to read more on how to manage anger, refer "Anger Management" at
http://controlling-anger.blogspot.com/

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Help in daily chores at home. You cannot expect just about one or two persons of the family to carry out all the daily chores like cooking, washing, housekeeping, ironing clothes, grocery buying etc. Being a member of the family, you must share the work load.

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Party. Party with your family and friends. Won't it be fun being together and merrymaking?

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Wear you favorite perfume. It makes you feel good. It makes others feel good about you. They are part of your external personality which is quite important. You may like to read more on "personality" at: http://human-personality.blogspot.com/

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Gather courage to be honest and truthful. It is associated with "do not pretend or fake". Put a stop to telling a lie or being dishonest to self and others. Yet, make sure that in doing so, you do not get into or create situations where you become vulnerable. A person of truth must also be a person of care. Take care.

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Try again. It is not a cliché. If you have a dream of achieving something and you are willing to develop your competencies for it, try again. Try, try again is a real thing.
On developing competencies, you may like to refer: http://shyam-bhatawdekar.blogspot.com/ or http://competency-matrix.blogspot.com/ or http://knol.google.com/k/shyam-bhatawdekar/competency-matrix/6txz9nck6g3/4#

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Wear smart clothes. You deserve them. It makes you feel good about yourself. Then why not?

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Do not get overexcited over others' slogans and quotes. They are spoken and written by mortals like you and they need not be sacrosanct. Apply your mind before accepting, modifying or rejecting them.

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If you wish to save 20 precious years of your life, Become tidy. Learn a wonderful and simple Japanese system called "5S Housekeeping" that you can apply at home and also in office- personally and professionally. In case you wish to know what 5S Housekeeping is all about, do not hesitate to refer: http://wow-idea.blogspot.com/2008/12/be-tidy-and-get-back-your-lost-one.html, http://5s-housekeeping.blogspot.com/ and http://5s-housekeeping-home.blogspot.com/

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Bring flowers home.
Flowers radiate happiness, wellness, optimism. You need not have to spend too much money on them. You may also grow them in your home. Put them in a nice vase and let everyone enjoy their beauty.

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Be assertive. Stop being submissive. Do not allow anyone to exploit you. No one can ever hurt you without your permission and there is no need to accord permission to anyone.
To inculcate this quality in you, you may like to refer: (Assertiveness) http://assertiveness-skill.blogspot.com/ and (Self-confidence) http://self-confidence-improvement.blogspot.com/

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Stop using four-letter words. Stop using coarse language.

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Drink hot and strong coffee.
Along side, to go with it, eat a muffin or pastry or doughnut or cake or any other bakery item of your liking, fresh from oven.

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Enjoy a rainy day. Watch and feel the rains and relish eating hot and spicy Indian "pakoras" or "samosas". If you wish to cook Indian "pakoras" or "samosas" yourself, take help of the recipes given at http://easytocook-recipes.blogspot.com/2008/08/spicy-assoted-indian-pakodas-simplified.html and http://tastetherecipes.blogspot.com/search/label/samosa